So I’m curious. What do YOU think constitutes sex? Penetration? If so, does it have to be by a dick? Do fingers count? How about oral?

See, I got into a discussion recently about at what age I lost my virginity, and with how many people I’ve “had sex” with. The rules changed a few years ago when I started dating women on a regular basis as well as men.

Sure - the first time was with a guy. Cock and cootchie and all the trimmings. That is sex. At least, I think so… or was it my first time? If fingers count, then I lost my precious maidenhood a while before that. If fingers DON”T count, then what exactly am I doing with my girlfriend? What about a simple handjob? If I gave a man a handjob, does that count more or less than giving my girlfriend a going working over with my hand?

What if only one person has an orgasm? Does that count?

What if person A is giving person B a handjob (or fingering), and person B is so tired from a long day that she falls asleep before having an orgasm. Does that count?

What if two people start to mess around, have fingers in all the right holes, but NO ONE has an orgasm? Does that count?

*sigh* What if I try to masturbate and just lose interest and watch adult swim instead?

Original post by sexykitten